Following the Moon: A Menopausal Woman’s Guide to Finding Flow, Creativity and Rest
Yesterday we experienced a beautiful new moon and it brought with it an invitation to pause, breathe and reconnect. I spoke to so many women this week who said they felt emotional, tired or unusually reflective and it all makes sense. The new moon carries a quiet, introspective energy and for women in perimenopause and menopause this energy can feel especially powerful.
As women we are naturally cyclical beings. For decades our menstrual cycle provided a sense of rhythm and an internal map guiding our moods, creativity and energy. When the monthly bleed fades during menopause many women tell me they feel disconnected from that inner rhythm. They often say they feel unanchored or unsure how to structure their energy throughout the month.
Here is the truth that I want every midlife woman to hear.
Your cycle has not ended. It has simply shifted.
The moon can now become your rhythm.
Just as the tides respond to the moon our bodies and emotions respond too. The lunar cycle offers a beautiful framework that helps women reconnect with creativity, clarity and rest. Since we have just stepped into a new moon it is the perfect moment to explore how each phase can support you.
New Moon Energy: Quiet Beginnings and Deep Rest
With the sky dark and the world quieter the new moon invites us to turn inward. After menopause this phase mirrors what the menstrual phase once offered. A moment to rest and gather yourself. A moment for stillness and intention.
Many women notice that during a new moon they feel introspective or tired. Some feel a desire to withdraw or journal. Others simply feel a natural urge to slow down.
Supportive practices include:
• Gentle journalling and intention setting for the month ahead
• Warm grounding foods like soups or roasted vegetables
• Early nights and quiet evenings
• Slow walks in nature to tune in to what you truly need
This is your pause. Your exhale. Your reset.
Waxing Moon: Rising Energy and Creativity
Over the next week the moon will begin to grow and many women naturally feel their energy rising too. This is the time to begin new habits or projects. You might feel more social, more focused or more motivated. It is an ideal time to start a new fitness routine, refresh your nutrition or plan something creative.
Supportive practices include:
• Eating more colourful and vibrant foods
• Planning tasks that require clarity and focus
• Connecting with others and saying yes to collaboration
• Adding a little more movement to your day
Think of this as your build and grow phase.
Full Moon: Illumination and Sacred Rest
When the moon reaches her fullest light everything becomes clearer. This is often the most emotional part of the cycle. Many women notice stronger feelings, heightened intuition or a need to withdraw.
Ancient traditions viewed the full moon as a time for women to rest together. Even without a physical bleed you can honour this powerful need for stillness.
Supportive practices include:
• Creating space for rest around the full moon
• Quiet evenings with calming herbal teas
• Journalling about what has come to the surface
• A warm bath with lavender or clary sage
This is a time of release and reflection.
Waning Moon: Letting Go and Preparing for Renewal
As the moon begins to shrink our energy naturally shifts inward again. This is the cleansing phase and it is perfect for emotional clearing, decluttering and simplifying life.
Supportive practices include:
• Lemon water and leafy greens to support the liver
• Gentle yoga or tai chi to release tension
• Clearing physical spaces that feel heavy
• Letting go of worries, habits or thoughts that no longer support you
This prepares the ground for the next new moon and the next beginning.
Why Lunar Living Matters in Menopause
Menopause invites us into a new chapter. Hormones shift and the predictable rhythm we lived with for decades changes. Following the moon offers a gentle guide to help us reconnect with our cyclical nature.
Lunar living can help you feel:
• more grounded
• more connected to your intuition
• more balanced emotionally
• more aware of your energy levels
• more supported by nature and by your own wisdom
The moon becomes your new guide. Your new feminine rhythm. Your new cycle.
Final Thoughts
Menopause is not an ending. It is a rebirth into wisdom, intuition and deep feminine power. The moon is there to walk beside you through each phase. With yesterday’s new moon as your starting point I invite you to move into this next lunar cycle with curiosity and kindness.
When you next look up at the night sky let the moon remind you that you are still cyclical, still radiant and still beautifully connected to the natural rhythms of life.

